38305guy, 42

Most people would say I'm intelligent, have good reasoning skills, good judgement, and a pretty honest and fair guy. I've lived in many places, seen many cultures, and plan to see more any chance I can get. I speak french pretty well, and would love to take an extended stay across Europe and see it as a tourist for a change. I lived there but I was so much younger I have forgotten a lot. I lived in South America as well. I have a strong work ethic. My daughter and family will always come first, but I like the feeling of accomplishing the big projects. I enjoy traveling, playing card games, watching movies, the arts, music, and quite a bit of other things. I'm a cuddler. I have an independent side as well that will tend to do projects, usually work-related or hobbies etc. I think it's good to be content even when you don't spend every waking hour together...feeling secure enough about the relationship and yourself.

I would like to meet someone that knows where they're going, or has a good idea...who knows how to think for themselves, and can be accountable in life. Someone who is dependable, and can be a good role model to my daughter. Most of all I want to meet someone who can be genuine with their emotions... someone whose thoughts and words are true to what they believe and what they want ( Wittiness and sarcasm is great, but you also have to be able to have a flat out serious conversation when it comes up ).

I think what people forget is that there are some things you need to do without your kids, but there are just as many new experiences you can do with your children. I can't wait to go to theme parks, the beach, mammoth caves, and other places and watch my daughter having fun and learning through experience.

I'm going to add... I really don't care for night clubs, and I'm not a bar guy. I don't mind a bar but it's not exactly my idea of a hangout.