I'm looking for someone who does not want to rush into a dating relationship right away. I mean, I would like to start out friends first, if that is possible. I get turned off by online guys who immediately start talking about how they want to be my boyfriend. I want to get to know the person before I agree to date them. I want to know that I'm being persued because of who I am, not because someone is just looking for a girlfriend.
Another thing that is very important to me is that any guy who is interested in me shares the same theological views that I do -- belief in the historic Christian creeds, belief in the Trinity, belief that Jesus is both fully God and fully man, belief in the blood atonement, belief in Jesus' bodily resurrection, belief in Jesus' literal second coming (in short, that he believes in the gospel message). I'm very theologically conservative in my viewpoints. I will not yield on any of the above beliefs. I'm also VERY opposed to the Word of Faith/Prosperity gospel.
It is also important to me that any guy that is interested in me has trusted in Jesus Christ to be his Lord and Savior.
These things are important to me because I want Jesus Christ to be the center of all the stages of my relationship with any guy.
I would be interested in a Christian man who loved me for who I am, who sought to encourage me both in my life and in my relationship with God, who treated me in a loving way...someone who truly cared for me, and someone who respected me as a person.
Arwen4cj, 42
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Columbus, OH, USA
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About Me
Gender
Female
Orientation
Straight
Height
5'04"
Weight
100 lbs
Body Type
skinny, slim, slender
Movies
comedy, romantic comedy, sci-fi, drama, action, romance
Orientation
straight
Eye Color
brown
Hair Color
dark brown
Ethnicity
Caucasian
Relationship
single - never married
Have Kids
no - definitely want them though
Education Level
high school grad, some college, college grad, some high school
Profession
Other
Do you smoke?
no - will not date a smoker
I currently live
with pets, with parents, alone, family and friends visit often
Socially, I am
better in small groups
Political Views
conservative
Food Related
Omnivore, Chocoholic, Indian, French, Italian, Comfort, Chinese, Japanese
Personality
conservative, intellectual, romantic, introvert, professional
Religious Views
Christian
I'm looking for
mr. right, conversation, dating, relationship, romance, penpal, friends only
Pets
Dog, Cat, Fish
Gender
Female
Looking for
Hobbies & Interests
computers, cooking & recipes, cosplay, cycling, dancing, gardening, hunting, internet, manga, movies, music, photography, reading, running, sports, surfing, swimming, target practice, television, travel, video games, weather, working out, writing
Their Body Type
a few extra pounds, athletic, average, bodybuilder, disabled, fat and proud, fit, large, overweight, pleasantly plump, skinny, slender, slim, supermodel, thick, voluptuous
Movies
action, comedy, drama, indie, romance, romantic comedy, sci-fi
Orientation
straight
Eye Color
green, hazel, black, blue, brown, glass, gray
Hair Color
a little gray, auburn, bald, black, blond, dark brown, depends on the day of the week, light brown, red, white / gray
Their Ethnicity
African American, Caucasian, Hispanic / Latino, Indian, Inter-racial, Middle Eastern, Mixed Race, Native American, Other, Pacific Islander
Relationship
off the market, just here for friends, seeing someone, single - never married
Have Kids
no - definitely want them though
Their Education Level
college grad
Profession
Artistic / Musical / Writer, Banking / Financial Services / Real Estate, Clerical / Administrative, Computer related / Hardware, Construction / Craftsman, Education / Academic Research, Entertainment / Media, Executive / Management, Food Service, Hospitality / Travel, Internet, Legal Services, Manufacturing / Distributions, Medical / Health Services, Other, Politics / Goverment / Military, Sales / Marketing, Technical / Science / Engineering, Transportation / Trucking
Income level
$100,000+, $25,000-$50,000, $50,000-$100,000, Less than $25,000, that's private
Do they smoke?
no - will not date a smoker
Do they drink?
no
Socially, they are
a couch potato, better in small groups, comic relief, home body, loner, shy at first, but warm up quickly, side kick, social butterfly
Political Views
conservative, democrat, green party, independent, liberal, libertarian, not interested in politics, progressive, reform party, republican, socialist
Food Related
Carnivore, Chinese, Chocoholic, Comfort, French, Indian, Italian, Japanese, Lactose Intolerant (am I sharing too much?), Omnivore, Spicy, Vegan, Vegetarian
Personality
activist, conservative, extrovert, fun loving, geek, intellectual, introvert, jock, liberal, loner, lover, nerd, pirate, preppy, professional, punk, romantic, tree hugger, type a
Religious Views
Catholic, Christian, Jewish
They are looking for
conversation, dating, friends only, miss right, miss right now, penpal, relationship, romance
Their Sign
i don't believe in zodiac signs
Pets
Ferret, Ferrets, Fish, Guinea Pig, Guinea Pigs, Horse, Horses, Iguana, Pot-Bellied Pig, Rabbit, Rabbits, Rat, Rats, Rock, Small Furry Creature, Snake, Snakes, Spider, Spiders, Turtle, Turtles, Bird, Birds, Cat, Cats, Dog, Dogs, Farm Animal, Farm Animals
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