Dahlialady, 59

Looking for the other half of my brain. If you understand the difference between an argument and an intense discussion between two people that have differing views then I would truly love to talk with you. No two people in this world agree with each other all the time. Sometimes the conversation can get heated...I find that very appealing especially when there is a mutual attraction between the two people involved in the conversation. Heat is good! Anger is not. I respect and value a man who has his own thoughts and views about this world and what is going on in it. I also respect a man who will try to explain his views to me while understanding and accepting that I may not always feel the same. Intellect is extremely attractive and is the key factor in a relationship I would consider pursuing. Does intellect carry a college degree? Sometimes but not always. I have met some men with advanced degrees that could not hold a conversation. That is ok. It is who they are but it is not what I need. I need someone who will challenge my mind and excite me physically as well. So I am looking for someone who is attracted to a college educated single mom who is looking for a relationship with the only expectation in the beginning being the ability to carry on a decent conversation outside of children and work. I am a family girl. I love my children and I am sure you love yours. Children are joyous and wondrous beings and I dedicate a lot of time to mine as I would hope you do yours. However, neither of us would be here if we didn't need more. Talk to me. Where it goes from there is up to us.