Envcat, 54

Fun & intelligent seeking the same I live in NYC and prefer men who are smart and charming to those who are obsessed with their phone, wallet, or car.
You are ideal if you are smart with strong social skills, and appreciate a smart woman. If you can see through looks and a smile and see the person beneath, then you're off to a good start. Men who are more intuitive in addition to being smart have an easier time reading me. I'm not one of those women who is going to give you every single clue you're looking for. I'm not playing games, I'm just a little self-contained. I have some exposure to more polite and contained cultures, which gives me the sense that putting it ALL out there is not required.

That being said, I can also be more animated and expressive than those who are highly intellectual, because I have a strong creative side (as a writer) and therefore a tendency to express. It may take a while for this side to surface, because I need to be comfortable before it does. I may appear "shy" if you don't know what you're seeing.

I'm complex. I know that often drives men crazy. So if you're the type who's able to read a complex woman, then that puts you at the top of your list. I've given you some pointers, hopefully that helps. Use your intelligence, and say hello if you think you're a fit.