I have absolutely no idea what I am doing here.
The truth is I am 24, live alone, and have no tertiary education. And at 24, I shouldn't have as many regrets or worries as I do.
I also don't have anyone who I can talk to about anything. I don't feel like I belong anywhere, or with anyone, and I am hoping by widening out my catchment area of potential friends, that I might actually get some.
I also am tired of being apathetic. I don't have opinions or views about a lot of things, I am the constant fence sitter, not wanting to upset anyone for fear that they won't like me.
So if you have made it this far through my 'bio' I applaud you, and ask that you help me. Help me to define my views and opinions, and to teach me how to have friends.. because I am not very good at that...
Also I am a playwright (amateur) so I may tend to write like a character with bad dialogue...
and I am a fan of alliteration.
Good luck, and thank you for reading this drivel
Neilej, 35
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Gisborne, Australia
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Bored and Apathetic
About Me
Gender
Male
Orientation
Friendship Only
Height
5'11"
Weight
210 lbs
Hobbies & Interests
comic books, history, internet, magic, movies, reading, television, writing
Body Type
a few extra pounds, overweight
Movies
action, black & white films, classics, drama, indie, mockumentaries, romance, sci-fi
Orientation
asexual, celibate, straight
Eye Color
blue, brown, gray, green
Hair Color
dark brown
Ethnicity
Caucasian
Relationship
off the market, just here for friends, single, single - never married
Have Kids
no - and am unable to, no - definitely want them though, no - maybe with the right person, no - open to adoption
Education Level
high school grad, some college
Profession
Education / Academic Research, Entertainment / Media
Income level
$50,000-$100,000
Do you smoke?
no - open to dating smokers though
Do you drink?
alcoholic, beer, daily
I currently live
alone
Socially, I am
comic relief, flirt, loner, shy at first, but warm up quickly, a couch potato, anti-social, better in small groups
Political Views
democrat, liberal
Food Related
Eat Out Frequently, Fast Food, Junk Food Junkie, Lactose Intolerant (am I sharing too much?)
Personality
artistic, intellectual, introvert, liberal, loner, romantic
Individuality
artist, beard, superhero sidekick
Religious Views
Agnostic, Not Religious
I'm looking for
conversation, dating, fun, penpal, relationship, something interesting
My Sign
gemini : may 21-june 20
Pets
No pets currently (but like them)
Gender
Male
Music
Alternative Rock, Bluegrass, Classical, House, Indie, Jazz-Fusion, Motown, Opera, Pop, Progressive Rock, Relaxation and Meditation, Rock, Ska, Soul, World
Hair Style
shag
Fitness & Sports
ballet, basketball, football (International), snowboarding
Health Related
challenging health issues, therapy
Languages
English
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