To explain: I live in South Africa, in an area that is cold and damp in winter, but pleasant in summer. I would like to find a woman with whom I match well, and who has a house/apartment in the UK. Then every 6 months we move, never having to endure winter!
The most important attribute I am looking for in a relationship is intellectual compatibility. In this area I am a bit of a mixed bag. While I attended an academic private school ("public school" in the UK), my tertiary education was technical. However, I have not stopped reading all my life (mostly non-fiction in many areas), and I am a member of Mensa.
I live 30km inland from Durban, in a large house, situated next to a nature reserve, that I run as a BnB. I was a software developer, but I'm semi-retired now. I use alcohol only occasionally. I enjoy theatre, art, jigsaw puzzles, party games and cats.
I am verbally acute and articulate. Passionate and fiercely affectionate. I am besotted with most types of music, except Jazz and Rap/Hop. I love being in the outdoors. I am resourceful and practical, and enjoy doing most types of DIY.
I like being creative in a number of ways, one of which is writing doggerel and limericks. Hence:
Dave in SA, wants to be a swallow,
Swap hemispheres, in summer to wallow.
Pursues a dame
Who seeks the same.
Join me - together the sun to follow!
I am writing this in September 2025. If we find each other soon, you could join me for the SA summer!
Sadave, 67
today
Kloof, South Africa
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SA Intellectual seeks match in the UK for perpetual summer!
About Me
Gender
Male
Orientation
Straight
Height
5'11"
Weight
190 lbs
Hobbies & Interests
Computers, Internet, Movies, Music, Nature, Puzzles and brain teasers, Reading, Science, Travel, Writing
Body Type
Average
Movies
Psychological thrillers, Classics, Comedy, Drama
Eye Color
Blue
Hair Color
White / gray
Ethnicity
Caucasian
Relationship
Divorced
Have Kids
Yes - grown and out of the house
Education Level
Some college
Profession
Hospitality / Travel
Income level
$25,000-$50,000
Do you smoke?
No - will not date a smoker
Do you drink?
Socially
I currently live
Alone
Socially, I am
Shy at first, but warm up quickly
Political Views
Conservative
Food Related
Omnivore
Personality
Intellectual
Individuality
Rocket scientist
Religious Views
Agnostic
I'm looking for
Relationship
Pets
Cat
Music
World, Relaxation and Meditation, Pop, Classical, Chamber, Celtic
Hair Style
Short hair
Fitness & Sports
Hiking
Languages
English
MBTI® Personality Type
INTJ
My Preferred Pronouns
He/Him/His
Love Language
Physical Touch
Highly Sensitive Type
Orchid
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Brain Teasers
1153 membersA group for people interested in challenging their minds with logic puzzles, word games, and other brain teasers.
Philosophy
2317 membersA group for people interested in exploring different philosophical concepts and theories and their implications for our lives.
Reading - Books
2412 membersA group for people interested in reading books of all genres and discussing the stories, characters, and themes within them.
Science
2024 membersA group for people interested in exploring the scientific world through experiments, research, and discussions.
The Arts
1580 membersA group for people interested in exploring the various forms of art and the ways they can be used to express ideas and feelings.
Intellectual Pursuits
- Mensa
- Mensa Testing
- Mental Floss
- Wikipedia
- Science Daily
- How Stuff Works
- Brain Games
- Thinking Machine
Intellectual Dating Sites
Mainstream Dating Sites
Webcam Sites
Funny Sites
- The Onion
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